A list of friendly sites of which I frequent and am on good terms with the owners of, but which I am NOT associated with in any official capacity:
Venus Satanas’s blog
Venus has been a theistic Satanist for much of her life. I’ve had a lot of conversations with her in my chatroom. She is also a lover of music like myself.
Order of the Serpent
I’m good friends with the webmaster who’s one of the founders, as well as being friends or longtime acquaintances with many of the regulars. It’s forum is one of the better active LHP forums on the internet. I’m a regular poster myself.